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Master Don Juan
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Merry Christmas Gentlemen! May each of you be blessed and enjoy abundance now and in the coming year 
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This doesn’t pass the smell test. Where are you located where they are issuing fines for visiting family?Merry Christmas, may this God forsaken year end and lead to less lockdown, they are levying $1000 fines for any social gatherings, obviously its Christmas, your not allowed to see family.
Edmonton, Alberta, CanadaThank you OP. Same to you!
This doesn’t pass the smell test. Where are you located where they are issuing fines for visiting family?
Yeah, we're getting fines here in Manitoba too. It's currently illegal to buy a fvcking birthday card.Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good to know that the US isn't the only country that has given in to insanity. If I believed in conspiracies, it would almost make me think there was some global force at work.Yeah, we're getting fines here in Manitoba too. It's currently illegal to buy a fvcking birthday card.