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Master Don Juan
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Merry Christmas Gentlemen! May each of you be blessed and enjoy abundance now and in the coming year 
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This doesn’t pass the smell test. Where are you located where they are issuing fines for visiting family?Merry Christmas, may this God forsaken year end and lead to less lockdown, they are levying $1000 fines for any social gatherings, obviously its Christmas, your not allowed to see family.
Edmonton, Alberta, CanadaThank you OP. Same to you!
This doesn’t pass the smell test. Where are you located where they are issuing fines for visiting family?
Yeah, we're getting fines here in Manitoba too. It's currently illegal to buy a fvcking birthday card.Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Good to know that the US isn't the only country that has given in to insanity. If I believed in conspiracies, it would almost make me think there was some global force at work.Yeah, we're getting fines here in Manitoba too. It's currently illegal to buy a fvcking birthday card.