Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Mental fatigue

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What are your best recommendations for mental fatigue. I get that kind of numb feeling sometimes or foggy feeling in my head.

I also get mentally tired quickly. I guess I'm a big ***** or burned out, or depressed?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I get that alot too, best thing I've done is some kind of activity/exercise outside in the sunlight. Get the blood flowing, and quit thinking so much.
 

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30 minutes of sunlight daily if possible, cardio exercise and a diet rich in omega 3's along with getting plenty of sleep will likely reduce or eliminate this.
 

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Either:

a. You sleep too much
b. You don't sleep enough
c. You don't exercise
d. You have a terrible diet
 

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Learn to meditate and quiet the mind. If you're mentally fatigued you're probably wasting your energy on trying to control things you can't control. These are troubled times.


Cheers!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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20 rep squats > Testosterone flow > counter-act the apparent estrogen takeover of your mind/body
 

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romangod said:
Learn to meditate and quiet the mind. If you're mentally fatigued you're probably wasting your energy on trying to control things you can't control. These are troubled times.
You are starting to become my favorite poster. Very wise indeed.
 

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Had i only started meditating 10 years ago when i made this post
 

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But in all seriousness, it’s still a problem in 2019 for a lot of people.

Maybe consider the following:

1. Don’t try to multitask. Focus on one thing at a time. You’ll soon get into “the zone” on that particular task and not feel as foggy. Jumping around from one thing to another makes brain fog much worse.

2. Get adequate sleep.

3. Nofap/noporn for mental clarity

4. Cold (or at least lukewarm) showers to wake you up
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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But in all seriousness, it’s still a problem in 2019 for a lot of people.

Maybe consider the following:

1. Don’t try to multitask. Focus on one thing at a time. You’ll soon get into “the zone” on that particular task and not feel as foggy. Jumping around from one thing to another makes brain fog much worse.

2. Get adequate sleep.

3. Nofap/noporn for mental clarity

4. Cold (or at least lukewarm) showers to wake you up
Very good post. I have on occasion used a technique called the pomodoro method where i focus for 25 minutes before i take a small break
 

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So which goal or pursuit have you recently been overwhelmed by or squashed by or haven’t been working on?

Your mind can trick a man into thinking he’s not good enough or “who am I kidding?” Voice that pops up in your head.

Or someone has been suppressing your ideas and goals. Snide comments etc
 

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I work in a field in healthcare where most of my work is kind of dictated to me by the needs of patient care. However my department rewards project work as something of great value too. I struggle to work on projects given my more pressing short term clinical responsibilities.

There is alot of task switching in my job due to frequent interruptions and this no doubt is responsible for the mental fatigue
 
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