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Where does the stimulation or cause of horniness mostly come from? The brain, penis, or other sex parts?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Men sex drive and arousal
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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other sex parts!?!?
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testes, testicle, you know, those stuff
From the Wikipedia:
On a biological level, an increasing amount of research is demonstrating that a man's sex drive (and sexual attractiveness to women) is closely linked with hormones such as testosterone. A man can boost his testosterone naturally through reducing (or eliminating) smoking, alcohol, certain drugs such as most anti-depressants, emotional stress, and simple carbohydrates such as white sugar. He should also avoid exposing his testicles to too much heat such as from a hot tub. Conversely, eating a diet of 70% fruits and vegetables and 25% to 30% protein boosts a man's testosterone, as does drinking more water, lifting weights, sunbathing, and meditation.
(source: John Alexander, How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Lulu Press, 2005). ISBN 1-4116-3773-9)
As for the parts, testosterone is produced in men by the testes primarily and the adrenal glands secondarily. Adrenal glands are located above the kidneys in your abdomen.
On a biological level, an increasing amount of research is demonstrating that a man's sex drive (and sexual attractiveness to women) is closely linked with hormones such as testosterone. A man can boost his testosterone naturally through reducing (or eliminating) smoking, alcohol, certain drugs such as most anti-depressants, emotional stress, and simple carbohydrates such as white sugar. He should also avoid exposing his testicles to too much heat such as from a hot tub. Conversely, eating a diet of 70% fruits and vegetables and 25% to 30% protein boosts a man's testosterone, as does drinking more water, lifting weights, sunbathing, and meditation.
(source: John Alexander, How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Lulu Press, 2005). ISBN 1-4116-3773-9)
As for the parts, testosterone is produced in men by the testes primarily and the adrenal glands secondarily. Adrenal glands are located above the kidneys in your abdomen.
I will vouch for that!Throttle said:
Dropping simple carbs, such as white bread, pasta, white rice, had an almost immediate and insane effect on me. These are supposed to hinder alertness too. Basically, when eating stodgy food such as the above, extra blood is needed to aid the digestion process and is not being used to aid arousal (or brain function).
Smoking has the same effect as does anything that hinders blood circulation. On the other hand, anything that gets the blood circulating such as exercise helps increase arousal.
Generally speaking, increasing your health will increase your sex drive...and your energy levels and ability to perform.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Sunbathing, thats a new one, better get on the sunbeds.
Smoking definately has a negative effect, weight lifting will have a negative effect also if you over train and don't rest enough
Smoking definately has a negative effect, weight lifting will have a negative effect also if you over train and don't rest enough
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can stress affect sex drive?
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you see, my sexual desire is pretty low right now, and I haven't even masturbate for 4 days already. Sometimes, I go on porn site to try to spark up my sex desire, but not as high as before. I am 20 years old, is this a rare case? Has anyone suffered this same situation before, and how long did it take for you to overcome low sex drive?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Its probably cos your trying so hard, thinking about it all the time, its no good. Just forget about it and let it come naturally when you see a fit piece of ass walking down the street, too much porn will desensitize you to the average girl
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weird fag!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.