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Where does the stimulation or cause of horniness mostly come from? The brain, penis, or other sex parts?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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other sex parts!?!?
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testes, testicle, you know, those stuff
From the Wikipedia:
On a biological level, an increasing amount of research is demonstrating that a man's sex drive (and sexual attractiveness to women) is closely linked with hormones such as testosterone. A man can boost his testosterone naturally through reducing (or eliminating) smoking, alcohol, certain drugs such as most anti-depressants, emotional stress, and simple carbohydrates such as white sugar. He should also avoid exposing his testicles to too much heat such as from a hot tub. Conversely, eating a diet of 70% fruits and vegetables and 25% to 30% protein boosts a man's testosterone, as does drinking more water, lifting weights, sunbathing, and meditation.
(source: John Alexander, How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Lulu Press, 2005). ISBN 1-4116-3773-9)
As for the parts, testosterone is produced in men by the testes primarily and the adrenal glands secondarily. Adrenal glands are located above the kidneys in your abdomen.
On a biological level, an increasing amount of research is demonstrating that a man's sex drive (and sexual attractiveness to women) is closely linked with hormones such as testosterone. A man can boost his testosterone naturally through reducing (or eliminating) smoking, alcohol, certain drugs such as most anti-depressants, emotional stress, and simple carbohydrates such as white sugar. He should also avoid exposing his testicles to too much heat such as from a hot tub. Conversely, eating a diet of 70% fruits and vegetables and 25% to 30% protein boosts a man's testosterone, as does drinking more water, lifting weights, sunbathing, and meditation.
(source: John Alexander, How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Lulu Press, 2005). ISBN 1-4116-3773-9)
As for the parts, testosterone is produced in men by the testes primarily and the adrenal glands secondarily. Adrenal glands are located above the kidneys in your abdomen.
I will vouch for that!Throttle said:
Dropping simple carbs, such as white bread, pasta, white rice, had an almost immediate and insane effect on me. These are supposed to hinder alertness too. Basically, when eating stodgy food such as the above, extra blood is needed to aid the digestion process and is not being used to aid arousal (or brain function).
Smoking has the same effect as does anything that hinders blood circulation. On the other hand, anything that gets the blood circulating such as exercise helps increase arousal.
Generally speaking, increasing your health will increase your sex drive...and your energy levels and ability to perform.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Sunbathing, thats a new one, better get on the sunbeds.
Smoking definately has a negative effect, weight lifting will have a negative effect also if you over train and don't rest enough
Smoking definately has a negative effect, weight lifting will have a negative effect also if you over train and don't rest enough
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can stress affect sex drive?
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you see, my sexual desire is pretty low right now, and I haven't even masturbate for 4 days already. Sometimes, I go on porn site to try to spark up my sex desire, but not as high as before. I am 20 years old, is this a rare case? Has anyone suffered this same situation before, and how long did it take for you to overcome low sex drive?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Its probably cos your trying so hard, thinking about it all the time, its no good. Just forget about it and let it come naturally when you see a fit piece of ass walking down the street, too much porn will desensitize you to the average girl
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mrRuckus said:
weird fag!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.