"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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Where does the stimulation or cause of horniness mostly come from? The brain, penis, or other sex parts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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From the Wikipedia:

On a biological level, an increasing amount of research is demonstrating that a man's sex drive (and sexual attractiveness to women) is closely linked with hormones such as testosterone. A man can boost his testosterone naturally through reducing (or eliminating) smoking, alcohol, certain drugs such as most anti-depressants, emotional stress, and simple carbohydrates such as white sugar. He should also avoid exposing his testicles to too much heat such as from a hot tub. Conversely, eating a diet of 70% fruits and vegetables and 25% to 30% protein boosts a man's testosterone, as does drinking more water, lifting weights, sunbathing, and meditation.

(source: John Alexander, How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Lulu Press, 2005). ISBN 1-4116-3773-9)

As for the parts, testosterone is produced in men by the testes primarily and the adrenal glands secondarily. Adrenal glands are located above the kidneys in your abdomen.
 

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Throttle said:
A man can boost his testosterone naturally through reducing (or eliminating) smoking, alcohol, certain drugs such as most anti-depressants, emotional stress, and simple carbohydrates such as white sugar.
I will vouch for that!

Dropping simple carbs, such as white bread, pasta, white rice, had an almost immediate and insane effect on me. These are supposed to hinder alertness too. Basically, when eating stodgy food such as the above, extra blood is needed to aid the digestion process and is not being used to aid arousal (or brain function).

Smoking has the same effect as does anything that hinders blood circulation. On the other hand, anything that gets the blood circulating such as exercise helps increase arousal.

Generally speaking, increasing your health will increase your sex drive...and your energy levels and ability to perform. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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big bump on weight lifting...its been a week since i last lifted and i'm no where near as horny as i use to be while working out 3x a week
 

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Sunbathing, thats a new one, better get on the sunbeds.

Smoking definately has a negative effect, weight lifting will have a negative effect also if you over train and don't rest enough
 

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you see, my sexual desire is pretty low right now, and I haven't even masturbate for 4 days already. Sometimes, I go on porn site to try to spark up my sex desire, but not as high as before. I am 20 years old, is this a rare case? Has anyone suffered this same situation before, and how long did it take for you to overcome low sex drive?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We'd need to know a lot more about your situation. Do any of the following factors apply: stress, bad diet, radical changes in lifestyle, lack of exercise?
 

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
you see, my sexual desire is pretty low right now, and I haven't even masturbate for 4 days already. Sometimes, I go on porn site to try to spark up my sex desire, but not as high as before. I am 20 years old, is this a rare case? Has anyone suffered this same situation before, and how long did it take for you to overcome low sex drive?

Its probably cos your trying so hard, thinking about it all the time, its no good. Just forget about it and let it come naturally when you see a fit piece of ass walking down the street, too much porn will desensitize you to the average girl
 

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
you see, my sexual desire is pretty low right now, and I haven't even masturbate for 4 days already. Sometimes, I go on porn site to try to spark up my sex desire, but not as high as before. I am 20 years old, is this a rare case? Has anyone suffered this same situation before, and how long did it take for you to overcome low sex drive?
My husband uses Extagen in these days. Very effective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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