"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Men Only Thread: What is the Optimal Time between Lays?

What is the Optimal Time betwen Lays for a Man to be Strongest?

  • 1) One minute

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  • 2) One hour

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  • 3) One day

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • 4) One week

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • 5) One month

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  • 6) Two months

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  • 7) Six months

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  • 8) One year

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  • 9) Eternity

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bigneil

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If any women secretly or openly respond to this, may they be Damned.

That said, men: as you may have noticed, sex has a lasting effect that ties us down with Oxytocin, etc. You may have observed that you feel stronger after that effect wears off.

Considering this, what do you feel is the optimal (i.e., strongest, most independent) amount of time between sexual encounters for a man?

I don't mean how much would you meter out regularly, naturally that would be more than ideal if possible. This refers to the male Lone Wolf wandering the land gathering resources, what is the optimal amount of sex?

PS - This is sort of a trick question, like asking how often you would indulge in as much coke you would like, but be honest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sazc

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Lol, why must you challenge me so @bigneil .....
 
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Personally, I think twice a week is OK, but even once. If it's good and with someone you have chemistry with, it's gonna last mentally for 2-3 days at least.
 

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Yeah, I think there should be a choice in between one day and one week.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For me about two days out and I'm irritated for more. It takes 3 weeks of being dry for the pvssy to leave my swag.
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
How long does it take you guys to ",dry up" out of pvzzy when not getting none,?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How long does it take the effect of puzzy to wear off? On me its all gone after three weeks. Put me in some more puzzy and females find me attractive
Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
 

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Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
And that my friend is just ONE of the reasons I say SEX is much more than just a NUT for a male.
 

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I averaged one orgasm per week with my last relationship and never felt unsatisfied.

However, it kept me out of the game. I might have been too satisfied.

After a month without sex I found I suddenly started meeting new women again.

Optimal amounts for boyfriend versus player might be different.
 

Who Dares Win

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It depends on who you are and what you are doing.

If you are a law abiding citizen doing a desk work then abour 2-3 days is the best, you are relaxed enought and not in the need to divert energies seeking sex.

If you are a professional bank robber that needs to be sharp, angry and cynical to do his job and be ready to anything then no more than once a month.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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