"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Men Only Thread: What is the Optimal Time between Lays?

What is the Optimal Time betwen Lays for a Man to be Strongest?

  • 1) One minute

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  • 2) One hour

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  • 3) One day

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  • 4) One week

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • 5) One month

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  • 6) Two months

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  • 7) Six months

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  • 8) One year

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  • 9) Eternity

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bigneil

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If any women secretly or openly respond to this, may they be Damned.

That said, men: as you may have noticed, sex has a lasting effect that ties us down with Oxytocin, etc. You may have observed that you feel stronger after that effect wears off.

Considering this, what do you feel is the optimal (i.e., strongest, most independent) amount of time between sexual encounters for a man?

I don't mean how much would you meter out regularly, naturally that would be more than ideal if possible. This refers to the male Lone Wolf wandering the land gathering resources, what is the optimal amount of sex?

PS - This is sort of a trick question, like asking how often you would indulge in as much coke you would like, but be honest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sazc

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Lol, why must you challenge me so @bigneil .....
 
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lizardking82

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Personally, I think twice a week is OK, but even once. If it's good and with someone you have chemistry with, it's gonna last mentally for 2-3 days at least.
 

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Yeah, I think there should be a choice in between one day and one week.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For me about two days out and I'm irritated for more. It takes 3 weeks of being dry for the pvssy to leave my swag.
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
How long does it take you guys to ",dry up" out of pvzzy when not getting none,?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Infern0

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How long does it take the effect of puzzy to wear off? On me its all gone after three weeks. Put me in some more puzzy and females find me attractive
Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
 

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Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
And that my friend is just ONE of the reasons I say SEX is much more than just a NUT for a male.
 

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I averaged one orgasm per week with my last relationship and never felt unsatisfied.

However, it kept me out of the game. I might have been too satisfied.

After a month without sex I found I suddenly started meeting new women again.

Optimal amounts for boyfriend versus player might be different.
 

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It depends on who you are and what you are doing.

If you are a law abiding citizen doing a desk work then abour 2-3 days is the best, you are relaxed enought and not in the need to divert energies seeking sex.

If you are a professional bank robber that needs to be sharp, angry and cynical to do his job and be ready to anything then no more than once a month.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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