Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Men Only Thread: What is the Optimal Time between Lays?

What is the Optimal Time betwen Lays for a Man to be Strongest?

  • 1) One minute

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  • 2) One hour

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  • 3) One day

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • 4) One week

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • 5) One month

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • 6) Two months

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  • 7) Six months

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  • 8) One year

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  • 9) Eternity

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bigneil

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If any women secretly or openly respond to this, may they be Damned.

That said, men: as you may have noticed, sex has a lasting effect that ties us down with Oxytocin, etc. You may have observed that you feel stronger after that effect wears off.

Considering this, what do you feel is the optimal (i.e., strongest, most independent) amount of time between sexual encounters for a man?

I don't mean how much would you meter out regularly, naturally that would be more than ideal if possible. This refers to the male Lone Wolf wandering the land gathering resources, what is the optimal amount of sex?

PS - This is sort of a trick question, like asking how often you would indulge in as much coke you would like, but be honest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sazc

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Lol, why must you challenge me so @bigneil .....
 
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Personally, I think twice a week is OK, but even once. If it's good and with someone you have chemistry with, it's gonna last mentally for 2-3 days at least.
 

zekko

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Yeah, I think there should be a choice in between one day and one week.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For me about two days out and I'm irritated for more. It takes 3 weeks of being dry for the pvssy to leave my swag.
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
How long does it take you guys to ",dry up" out of pvzzy when not getting none,?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How long does it take the effect of puzzy to wear off? On me its all gone after three weeks. Put me in some more puzzy and females find me attractive
Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
 

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Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
And that my friend is just ONE of the reasons I say SEX is much more than just a NUT for a male.
 

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I averaged one orgasm per week with my last relationship and never felt unsatisfied.

However, it kept me out of the game. I might have been too satisfied.

After a month without sex I found I suddenly started meeting new women again.

Optimal amounts for boyfriend versus player might be different.
 

Who Dares Win

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It depends on who you are and what you are doing.

If you are a law abiding citizen doing a desk work then abour 2-3 days is the best, you are relaxed enought and not in the need to divert energies seeking sex.

If you are a professional bank robber that needs to be sharp, angry and cynical to do his job and be ready to anything then no more than once a month.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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