"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Men Only Thread: What is the Optimal Time between Lays?

What is the Optimal Time betwen Lays for a Man to be Strongest?

  • 1) One minute

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  • 2) One hour

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  • 3) One day

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  • 4) One week

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • 5) One month

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  • 6) Two months

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  • 7) Six months

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  • 8) One year

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  • 9) Eternity

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bigneil

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If any women secretly or openly respond to this, may they be Damned.

That said, men: as you may have noticed, sex has a lasting effect that ties us down with Oxytocin, etc. You may have observed that you feel stronger after that effect wears off.

Considering this, what do you feel is the optimal (i.e., strongest, most independent) amount of time between sexual encounters for a man?

I don't mean how much would you meter out regularly, naturally that would be more than ideal if possible. This refers to the male Lone Wolf wandering the land gathering resources, what is the optimal amount of sex?

PS - This is sort of a trick question, like asking how often you would indulge in as much coke you would like, but be honest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sazc

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Lol, why must you challenge me so @bigneil .....
 
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Personally, I think twice a week is OK, but even once. If it's good and with someone you have chemistry with, it's gonna last mentally for 2-3 days at least.
 

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Yeah, I think there should be a choice in between one day and one week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For me about two days out and I'm irritated for more. It takes 3 weeks of being dry for the pvssy to leave my swag.
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
 

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I agree with every 4 days or so.

When im steady with a girl i take zma and tribulus and that'll make it more like every day or two.

Stops you getting "shagged out" as it were
How long does it take you guys to ",dry up" out of pvzzy when not getting none,?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How long does it take the effect of puzzy to wear off? On me its all gone after three weeks. Put me in some more puzzy and females find me attractive
Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
 

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Ah i get you.

Well yeah a couple of weeks or whatever because there's that subtle attitude change
And that my friend is just ONE of the reasons I say SEX is much more than just a NUT for a male.
 

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I averaged one orgasm per week with my last relationship and never felt unsatisfied.

However, it kept me out of the game. I might have been too satisfied.

After a month without sex I found I suddenly started meeting new women again.

Optimal amounts for boyfriend versus player might be different.
 

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It depends on who you are and what you are doing.

If you are a law abiding citizen doing a desk work then abour 2-3 days is the best, you are relaxed enought and not in the need to divert energies seeking sex.

If you are a professional bank robber that needs to be sharp, angry and cynical to do his job and be ready to anything then no more than once a month.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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