"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Men: How many women have you had sex with?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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None will be completely honest, therefore this is rendered to masturbation.
About 3 out of 4 (74% of) members have been with 10 or fewer women.
Only 1 in 6 (16% of) members have been with more than 20 women.
Only 1 in 12 (8% of) members have been with more than 60 women.
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jafyk
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Note: 21 women is just about the average of this site, so not bad.
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jafyk
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Thank you thank you, so I guess I'm now a DJ since I'm the average range? Lol. Totally kidding about being a DJ now. I have a long way to go still.bigneil said:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maxtro
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Of course, girls can get pregnant from swallowing cum....mustfirstregister said:
jafyk
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lmao! oh I love that answer, lol. If you count BJ as having sex then you are too young to be in this forum since you obviously don't know what sex is. Maybe the OP should have broken it down and said sexual intercourse (penetration), lol.Maxtro said:
Maxtro
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It's amazing how often it comes up.jafyk said:
All the kid has to do is think, if you preform oral on a girl did you have sex? So why should a BJ count as sex.
That thread was my baby a while ago, I'm the guy who made it.bigneil said:
The vast majority of men sleep with less than 10 women in their life.
30% virgins and 33% have been with 5 or fewer.
I am curious about how in your poll there is only 15% virgin. Maybe we've had less newer members or kids are just having sex earlier.
Back when I was in High School, it wasn't uncommon for most guys to lose their virginity in High School, if they lost it at all. Now kids seem to be doing it in Jr. High. I think younger girls are much more promiscuous now then they were in the past.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.