Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That is the most awesome follow up post ever.bigneil said:Note: this should not include sex with prostitutes.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ummm....I was completely honest.KarmaSutra said:This thread is as worthless as asking a woman how many guys she's had drop a load in her.
None will be completely honest, therefore this is rendered to masturbation.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thank you thank you, so I guess I'm now a DJ since I'm the average range? Lol. Totally kidding about being a DJ now. I have a long way to go still.bigneil said:The reason I don't count hookers is because this is a PUA site and I'm curious how many women the members have picked up, not how many women they paid. That said, I have nothing against an occasional hooker. I think 10% of so is a good hooker percentage.
Note: 21 women is just about the average of this site, so not bad.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Of course, girls can get pregnant from swallowing cum....mustfirstregister said:BJ counts as having sex?
lmao! oh I love that answer, lol. If you count BJ as having sex then you are too young to be in this forum since you obviously don't know what sex is. Maybe the OP should have broken it down and said sexual intercourse (penetration), lol.Maxtro said:Of course, girls can get pregnant from swallowing cum....
Thanks! I like how that one breaks things down more. 30% virgins?? Only about 15% on this poll (Sosuave is working!) But the same exact percentage (74%) reported being with 10 or fewer women.Maxtro said:
It's amazing how often it comes up.jafyk said:lmao! oh I love that answer, lol. If you count BJ as having sex then you are too young to be in this forum since you obviously don't know what sex is. Maybe the OP should have broken it down and said sexual intercourse (penetration), lol.
That thread was my baby a while ago, I'm the guy who made it.bigneil said:Thanks! I like how that one breaks things down more. 30% virgins?? Only about 15% on this poll (Sosuave is working!) But the same exact percentage (74%) reported being with 10 or fewer women.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.