"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Men: How many women have you had sex with?
- Thread starter bigneil
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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None will be completely honest, therefore this is rendered to masturbation.
About 3 out of 4 (74% of) members have been with 10 or fewer women.
Only 1 in 6 (16% of) members have been with more than 20 women.
Only 1 in 12 (8% of) members have been with more than 60 women.
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jafyk
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Note: 21 women is just about the average of this site, so not bad.
Maxtro
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jafyk
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Thank you thank you, so I guess I'm now a DJ since I'm the average range? Lol. Totally kidding about being a DJ now. I have a long way to go still.bigneil said:
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maxtro
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Of course, girls can get pregnant from swallowing cum....mustfirstregister said:
jafyk
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lmao! oh I love that answer, lol. If you count BJ as having sex then you are too young to be in this forum since you obviously don't know what sex is. Maybe the OP should have broken it down and said sexual intercourse (penetration), lol.Maxtro said:
Maxtro
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It's amazing how often it comes up.jafyk said:
All the kid has to do is think, if you preform oral on a girl did you have sex? So why should a BJ count as sex.
That thread was my baby a while ago, I'm the guy who made it.bigneil said:
The vast majority of men sleep with less than 10 women in their life.
30% virgins and 33% have been with 5 or fewer.
I am curious about how in your poll there is only 15% virgin. Maybe we've had less newer members or kids are just having sex earlier.
Back when I was in High School, it wasn't uncommon for most guys to lose their virginity in High School, if they lost it at all. Now kids seem to be doing it in Jr. High. I think younger girls are much more promiscuous now then they were in the past.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.