“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Men are your competition, not your friends.

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The guy described here in this field report is a perfect example of this type of guy:

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Hey don giovanni, Great stuff here. You not only have a skillful use of sexual frames, but a very interesting use of sexual frames as well. It's obvious you're the type who enjoys creativity and innovation. Despite some anxiety, it also seems that you're strong through the first two transition...
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This mentality is why society is in the state we are in now. Bros before hos. Always.
 
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LucianoM said:
Im talking about guys you meet in the party and pick up scene. They are nothing more than competitors, dont ever think they're your friends. Sure you might meet a cool wing here and there, and he may genuinely want to see you succeed but once you start doing better than him you'll see him flip on you. Happens every time. You need to learn how to ride solo and pull girls on your own. You need to learn how to entertain multiple girls on your own. A lion doesnt rule his pride with his "friends", its just him and his girls. You need to be the same way. I deleted every mf'r from my phone because guys are faker than females and theyre completely useless to me. Just focus on you and your girls and thats it!
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Agreed I don't need any fake guy friends. The older you get, friends don't mean ****.
 
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The whole party club scene is fake anyway. That's one thing that shows just how nonsense PUA is. Once you acknowledge that clubs are the fakest places on Earth. (Except for maybe anonymous online forums).
 
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DonJuanjr said:
Sounds like a good dude. Though I bet that was very frustrating seeing these females that you're trying to pull just throwing themselves at him with absolutely no "game" or effort or anything.
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ha, of course! I kind of got used too it over the years. I've known him since we were about 14 and it's kind of always been like that. It's quite a sight to see, tbh! Many nights i'd wished i'd have filmed what was happening although included some bits in some FR's on here over the years I think. But it certainly bugged me a lot at one point lol.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Zimbabwe said:
That being said, how many of us here would trust our friends to be alone with our wife/girlfriend?
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The men I call my true friends I trust them without second thought. These are the types of guys who openly tell you if they sense that something with your girl is off.
If they betray me I got rid of a ****ty person and a ****ty woman.
 
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Velasco said:
Men WITH narcissistic personality disorder are your competition not your friends. Its hard to separate yourself from them because they are very charming. Therefore you will give them seemingly unlimited chances for their fvckups. The more chances you give them, the more it becomes harder to self detach yourself from them. As much as you tell yourself, "yea I gotta stop hanging out with x"

At the beginning. It's genuine. They really want to just be friends. Later they get to see certain privileges (law of reciprocation) they get from keeping close to you, is when you begin to see the traits associated with NPD individuals (turns into a transactional friendship).

Source: I'm one of them.

Edit: Also out of boredom, sometimes they'll sabatoge the relationship on purpose.
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just men or men and women ?
 
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oc16 said:
Well Said brother.

The two guys that I've had issues with aren't even single. One has a long term girlfriend that he cheats on all the time and the other is married.
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No doubt. I found that it doesn't matter what their situation is -- married, unavailable, ugly, has no chance whether you exist or not. It's usually about pride, ego, jealousy, competition, etc. The worse their character is, the worse it gets in my experience. Some people simply can't be happy for other's success or believe the world revolves around them and they're the only ones deserving of anything, regardless of what they may already have. Some even get angry because you rejected a girl that they wouldn't have (since they have no options) and try to twist it around as if you couldn't get her. It's just sad.
 
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LucianoM said:
Im talking about guys you meet in the party and pick up scene. They are nothing more than competitors, dont ever think they're your friends. Sure you might meet a cool wing here and there, and he may genuinely want to see you succeed but once you start doing better than him you'll see him flip on you. Happens every time. You need to learn how to ride solo and pull girls on your own. You need to learn how to entertain multiple girls on your own. A lion doesnt rule his pride with his "friends", its just him and his girls. You need to be the same way. I deleted every mf'r from my phone because guys are faker than females and theyre completely useless to me. Just focus on you and your girls and thats it!
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Why obsess so much over women? Male friendship is very important in a man's life. When my AC unit blew up I reached out to my good friend whose an electrician and was able to save me several thousand dollars by not only getting me a unit discounted but helped me install it for free. Do you think I could call some random girl I met at a bar two weeks ago to help? Not to mention you pick up traits of the people your around with. That's why it's important to spend your time with productive people. What happens to your mental psyche when you spend all your time and energy around super vain hot chicks.
 
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Meatman said:
Why obsess so much over women? Male friendship is very important in a man's life. When my AC unit blew up I reached out to my good friend whose an electrician and was able to save me several thousand dollars by not only getting me a unit discounted but helped me install it for free. Do you think I could call some random girl I met at a bar two weeks ago to help? Not to mention you pick up traits of the people your around with. That's why it's important to spend your time with productive people. What happens to your mental psyche when you spend all your time and energy around super vain hot chicks.
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LucianoM said:
Im talking about guys you meet in the party and pick up scene.
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Your electrician aint competing with you for females.
 
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SargeMaximus said:
This mentality is why society is in the state we are in now. Bros before hos. Always.
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Lots of men say this but few live up to it in reality.

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]What happens to your mental psyche when you spend all your time and energy around super vain hot chicks.
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It depends upon how successful you are in seducing them.
 
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oc16 said:
Very True.

Another point I have is:
If you were truly happy with your gf, fiance, wife.....You wouldn't be looking to cheat on her.
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Not necessarily true. Sometimes your real good at home and your pride and greed make you partake in a little outside activities.
 
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