"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Melbourne Aus !!!

jiza101

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OK, need some dudes to enjoy the game and get better at it with. Im 18 turn 19 in feb, from south east melbourne (near St Kilda) reply here :cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cheatz

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I'm from S.E melbourne but near dandenong. I havn't been clubbing in the city for a while because my mates cbf going to the city. Let us know when you go clubbing and we can meet up.
 

TheRelic

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Would luv to join ya's... but tied up atm... I want reports ;)

@Cheatz - know the feeling man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MelbourneGuy

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Me from Melb but an older novice

I'm from Melbourne but probably not what you're looking for as I'm basically VERY new to all this stuff. Feel free to email me however.
 

quest

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i'm semi interested.

just cautious due to not wanting people to know i come here.

i'm also around the dandenong area.
 

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from brighton area, if you guys wanna meet up for lunch/coffee and discuss routines/strategies and try n sarge the waitresses ;) drop me a pm, better yet

[email protected], add me to msn

i'm new to this whole thing aswell, but i've always had what i call "raw potential" that i'm now using :)
 
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jiza101

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haah **** so many new dudes, let me guess you all read the game ?? :crackup:
Good to have some dudes that are close, firefly must a rich mofo living in brighton, as well as manila in south yarra :cheer: :cool:
Give me some info about yourselves, where did you study, age etc.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good book. Been selling well down at Borders bookstore in Melb Central. Speaking of which... excellent place to pick-up! Guaran-damn-teed!
 
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