Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Melbourne Aus !!!

jiza101

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OK, need some dudes to enjoy the game and get better at it with. Im 18 turn 19 in feb, from south east melbourne (near St Kilda) reply here :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheatz

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I'm from S.E melbourne but near dandenong. I havn't been clubbing in the city for a while because my mates cbf going to the city. Let us know when you go clubbing and we can meet up.
 

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Would luv to join ya's... but tied up atm... I want reports ;)

@Cheatz - know the feeling man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MelbourneGuy

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Me from Melb but an older novice

I'm from Melbourne but probably not what you're looking for as I'm basically VERY new to all this stuff. Feel free to email me however.
 

quest

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i'm semi interested.

just cautious due to not wanting people to know i come here.

i'm also around the dandenong area.
 

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from brighton area, if you guys wanna meet up for lunch/coffee and discuss routines/strategies and try n sarge the waitresses ;) drop me a pm, better yet

[email protected], add me to msn

i'm new to this whole thing aswell, but i've always had what i call "raw potential" that i'm now using :)
 
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haah **** so many new dudes, let me guess you all read the game ?? :crackup:
Good to have some dudes that are close, firefly must a rich mofo living in brighton, as well as manila in south yarra :cheer: :cool:
Give me some info about yourselves, where did you study, age etc.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good book. Been selling well down at Borders bookstore in Melb Central. Speaking of which... excellent place to pick-up! Guaran-damn-teed!
 
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