"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Melbourne Aus !!!

jiza101

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OK, need some dudes to enjoy the game and get better at it with. Im 18 turn 19 in feb, from south east melbourne (near St Kilda) reply here :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cheatz

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I'm from S.E melbourne but near dandenong. I havn't been clubbing in the city for a while because my mates cbf going to the city. Let us know when you go clubbing and we can meet up.
 

TheRelic

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Would luv to join ya's... but tied up atm... I want reports ;)

@Cheatz - know the feeling man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MelbourneGuy

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Me from Melb but an older novice

I'm from Melbourne but probably not what you're looking for as I'm basically VERY new to all this stuff. Feel free to email me however.
 

quest

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i'm semi interested.

just cautious due to not wanting people to know i come here.

i'm also around the dandenong area.
 

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from brighton area, if you guys wanna meet up for lunch/coffee and discuss routines/strategies and try n sarge the waitresses ;) drop me a pm, better yet

[email protected], add me to msn

i'm new to this whole thing aswell, but i've always had what i call "raw potential" that i'm now using :)
 
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jiza101

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haah **** so many new dudes, let me guess you all read the game ?? :crackup:
Good to have some dudes that are close, firefly must a rich mofo living in brighton, as well as manila in south yarra :cheer: :cool:
Give me some info about yourselves, where did you study, age etc.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Slique

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Good book. Been selling well down at Borders bookstore in Melb Central. Speaking of which... excellent place to pick-up! Guaran-damn-teed!
 
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