"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Meetsafe screening

Ricky

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A few times I've met girls from Craigslist. Depending on my trust, I might just meet them, play a little and or bang them. Depends on my gut instincts.

On occasions I've gotten girls that want me to fill out the meetsafe screening thing.

I think its probably a scam, but they say they only meet guys that screen on it so it proves they arent sex offenders, etc.

Anyone have any experience with this? I think you have to be careful as it might sign you up for a porn site or something.

Maybe you could use a temporary credit card for it?

Heres an example
http://www.meetsafer.com/?ID=id253652
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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speakeasy

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Dude, why jump through hoops like that? Just meet a normal, well-adjusted, non-paranoid girl out in the real world like most people.
 

Ricky

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I'm in an LTR so I can only do casual things on the side.

I'm pretty much getting ready to committ and shut down the outside play anyways, but it's always tempting to get a few last bangs in.
 

thedeparted

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Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?
 

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thedeparted said:
Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?

You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


Cheers!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thedeparted

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romangod said:
You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


Cheers!
Ha ha. Yeah. Where do I get that one?
 
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