"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Meetsafe screening

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A few times I've met girls from Craigslist. Depending on my trust, I might just meet them, play a little and or bang them. Depends on my gut instincts.

On occasions I've gotten girls that want me to fill out the meetsafe screening thing.

I think its probably a scam, but they say they only meet guys that screen on it so it proves they arent sex offenders, etc.

Anyone have any experience with this? I think you have to be careful as it might sign you up for a porn site or something.

Maybe you could use a temporary credit card for it?

Heres an example
http://www.meetsafer.com/?ID=id253652
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude, why jump through hoops like that? Just meet a normal, well-adjusted, non-paranoid girl out in the real world like most people.
 
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I'm in an LTR so I can only do casual things on the side.

I'm pretty much getting ready to committ and shut down the outside play anyways, but it's always tempting to get a few last bangs in.
 
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Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?
 
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thedeparted said:
Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?
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You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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romangod said:
You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


Cheers!
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Ha ha. Yeah. Where do I get that one?
 
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