"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Meetsafe screening

Ricky

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A few times I've met girls from Craigslist. Depending on my trust, I might just meet them, play a little and or bang them. Depends on my gut instincts.

On occasions I've gotten girls that want me to fill out the meetsafe screening thing.

I think its probably a scam, but they say they only meet guys that screen on it so it proves they arent sex offenders, etc.

Anyone have any experience with this? I think you have to be careful as it might sign you up for a porn site or something.

Maybe you could use a temporary credit card for it?

Heres an example
http://www.meetsafer.com/?ID=id253652
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speakeasy

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Dude, why jump through hoops like that? Just meet a normal, well-adjusted, non-paranoid girl out in the real world like most people.
 

Ricky

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I'm in an LTR so I can only do casual things on the side.

I'm pretty much getting ready to committ and shut down the outside play anyways, but it's always tempting to get a few last bangs in.
 

thedeparted

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Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?
 

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thedeparted said:
Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?

You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


Cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thedeparted

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romangod said:
You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


Cheers!
Ha ha. Yeah. Where do I get that one?
 
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