"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Meetsafe screening

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A few times I've met girls from Craigslist. Depending on my trust, I might just meet them, play a little and or bang them. Depends on my gut instincts.

On occasions I've gotten girls that want me to fill out the meetsafe screening thing.

I think its probably a scam, but they say they only meet guys that screen on it so it proves they arent sex offenders, etc.

Anyone have any experience with this? I think you have to be careful as it might sign you up for a porn site or something.

Maybe you could use a temporary credit card for it?

Heres an example
http://www.meetsafer.com/?ID=id253652
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, why jump through hoops like that? Just meet a normal, well-adjusted, non-paranoid girl out in the real world like most people.
 
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I'm in an LTR so I can only do casual things on the side.

I'm pretty much getting ready to committ and shut down the outside play anyways, but it's always tempting to get a few last bangs in.
 
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Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?
 
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thedeparted said:
Does that screen for STD's? Or just criminal activity?
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You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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romangod said:
You're thinking of "meatsafe" screening.


Cheers!
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Ha ha. Yeah. Where do I get that one?
 
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