"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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O_O HOLY CHRIST

Dates don't work without sexual attraction, Luke.

Explain to my WHY you're going out on these dates if you don't want anything physical to happen?

Why did you not kiss her back?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ThunderMaverick said:
O_O HOLY CHRIST

Dates don't work without sexual attraction, Luke.

Explain to my WHY you're going out on these dates if you don't want anything physical to happen?
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That's not what the beginning of this posts suggest. If you read back, on the first date I asked her if she wanted to go together with me to a hotel room. She said 'no' to the idea. Case closed.

I know something about this 'three-date' rule, that if nothing happens after three dates then that means nothing will ever happen. It's stalemated where she didn't make any moves with me, and I didn't make any moves with her, or even talk about anything sexual.

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Why did you not kiss her back?
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I don't know, I already kissed her on the two prior dates, and just felt this whole thing was falling apart anyway and just didn't reciprocate back. However, I don't think I rejected her or anything like that.

Anyway, it's getting stale now, I am going after other natural girls, truth is, as a Christian, I don't think I want to just get laid or anything like that, and my libido in general has been so low that I cant even get an erection enough to masturbate in a fleshlight, forget about sex, I think I'm getting ED issues here, I think I'm going to put that on the backburner.
 
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You both should drink some alcohol, then it will be a different story.
 
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You have a flesh light?



....how is it? does it feel like a real vagina?..

..wait. You're a virgin. How could you possibly know?

Well...is it like...moist and..tight?

Do you have to like...lube it up for it to work?

Uh...does it...y know...

...vibrate?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Luke Skywalker said:
Anyway, it's getting stale now, I am going after other natural girls, truth is, as a Christian, I don't think I want to just get laid or anything like that, and my libido in general has been so low that I cant even get an erection enough to masturbate in a fleshlight, forget about sex, I think I'm getting ED issues here, I think I'm going to put that on the backburner.
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That's due to low testosterone levels!
Hit the gym now!
Squats, deadlifts and raw eggs will fix you up nicely.
 
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You're getting older and your tool isn't being put to good use.

I swear it's like a battery in a car that's never been started. The longer you wait, the harder it is for the battery to juice itself up again.

I don't understand why you just don't go for it. You have the talent and you have the tools...

...well, what's left of your tools, anyways.
 
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Tired, old, boring


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