"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Meeting a girl on second date, lost.

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O_O HOLY CHRIST

Dates don't work without sexual attraction, Luke.

Explain to my WHY you're going out on these dates if you don't want anything physical to happen?

Why did you not kiss her back?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThunderMaverick said:
O_O HOLY CHRIST

Dates don't work without sexual attraction, Luke.

Explain to my WHY you're going out on these dates if you don't want anything physical to happen?
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That's not what the beginning of this posts suggest. If you read back, on the first date I asked her if she wanted to go together with me to a hotel room. She said 'no' to the idea. Case closed.

I know something about this 'three-date' rule, that if nothing happens after three dates then that means nothing will ever happen. It's stalemated where she didn't make any moves with me, and I didn't make any moves with her, or even talk about anything sexual.

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Why did you not kiss her back?
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I don't know, I already kissed her on the two prior dates, and just felt this whole thing was falling apart anyway and just didn't reciprocate back. However, I don't think I rejected her or anything like that.

Anyway, it's getting stale now, I am going after other natural girls, truth is, as a Christian, I don't think I want to just get laid or anything like that, and my libido in general has been so low that I cant even get an erection enough to masturbate in a fleshlight, forget about sex, I think I'm getting ED issues here, I think I'm going to put that on the backburner.
 
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You both should drink some alcohol, then it will be a different story.
 
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You have a flesh light?



....how is it? does it feel like a real vagina?..

..wait. You're a virgin. How could you possibly know?

Well...is it like...moist and..tight?

Do you have to like...lube it up for it to work?

Uh...does it...y know...

...vibrate?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luke Skywalker said:
Anyway, it's getting stale now, I am going after other natural girls, truth is, as a Christian, I don't think I want to just get laid or anything like that, and my libido in general has been so low that I cant even get an erection enough to masturbate in a fleshlight, forget about sex, I think I'm getting ED issues here, I think I'm going to put that on the backburner.
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That's due to low testosterone levels!
Hit the gym now!
Squats, deadlifts and raw eggs will fix you up nicely.
 
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You're getting older and your tool isn't being put to good use.

I swear it's like a battery in a car that's never been started. The longer you wait, the harder it is for the battery to juice itself up again.

I don't understand why you just don't go for it. You have the talent and you have the tools...

...well, what's left of your tools, anyways.
 
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Tired, old, boring


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