"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Meeting a girl on second date, lost.

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O_O HOLY CHRIST

Dates don't work without sexual attraction, Luke.

Explain to my WHY you're going out on these dates if you don't want anything physical to happen?

Why did you not kiss her back?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ThunderMaverick said:
O_O HOLY CHRIST

Dates don't work without sexual attraction, Luke.

Explain to my WHY you're going out on these dates if you don't want anything physical to happen?
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That's not what the beginning of this posts suggest. If you read back, on the first date I asked her if she wanted to go together with me to a hotel room. She said 'no' to the idea. Case closed.

I know something about this 'three-date' rule, that if nothing happens after three dates then that means nothing will ever happen. It's stalemated where she didn't make any moves with me, and I didn't make any moves with her, or even talk about anything sexual.

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Why did you not kiss her back?
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I don't know, I already kissed her on the two prior dates, and just felt this whole thing was falling apart anyway and just didn't reciprocate back. However, I don't think I rejected her or anything like that.

Anyway, it's getting stale now, I am going after other natural girls, truth is, as a Christian, I don't think I want to just get laid or anything like that, and my libido in general has been so low that I cant even get an erection enough to masturbate in a fleshlight, forget about sex, I think I'm getting ED issues here, I think I'm going to put that on the backburner.
 
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You both should drink some alcohol, then it will be a different story.
 
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You have a flesh light?



....how is it? does it feel like a real vagina?..

..wait. You're a virgin. How could you possibly know?

Well...is it like...moist and..tight?

Do you have to like...lube it up for it to work?

Uh...does it...y know...

...vibrate?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luke Skywalker said:
Anyway, it's getting stale now, I am going after other natural girls, truth is, as a Christian, I don't think I want to just get laid or anything like that, and my libido in general has been so low that I cant even get an erection enough to masturbate in a fleshlight, forget about sex, I think I'm getting ED issues here, I think I'm going to put that on the backburner.
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That's due to low testosterone levels!
Hit the gym now!
Squats, deadlifts and raw eggs will fix you up nicely.
 
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You're getting older and your tool isn't being put to good use.

I swear it's like a battery in a car that's never been started. The longer you wait, the harder it is for the battery to juice itself up again.

I don't understand why you just don't go for it. You have the talent and you have the tools...

...well, what's left of your tools, anyways.
 
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Tired, old, boring


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