"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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meeting a girl i never met

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we all eat food

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this girl who is friends with one of my friends, who she hates a lot now, asked me to go the mall with her tommorow, but i dont know her. should I bring a friend with me or not, what should i do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Either she wants you as a friend or she wants you as a BF.

IF you feel uncomfortable going by yourself, then tell her to bring one of her friends (so you can you a friend of yours too).

Its just the mall, so don't expect to get a BJ.
 
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i'd go by myself (if u think she is pretty)
 
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id doesnt matter if he wants to go to the mall. Dawg have u read any of this guys posts. theyva ll been about how he used to havelots of friends and now he doesnt. Dawg u better go to the mall with this chick because 1) gain some valuble experience
2) socialize with a girl for a couple of hours
3)at worst you could have this girl as a friend who you can talk too and might introduce you to many of her firends
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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