"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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meeting a girl i never met

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we all eat food

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this girl who is friends with one of my friends, who she hates a lot now, asked me to go the mall with her tommorow, but i dont know her. should I bring a friend with me or not, what should i do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Either she wants you as a friend or she wants you as a BF.

IF you feel uncomfortable going by yourself, then tell her to bring one of her friends (so you can you a friend of yours too).

Its just the mall, so don't expect to get a BJ.
 
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i'd go by myself (if u think she is pretty)
 
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id doesnt matter if he wants to go to the mall. Dawg have u read any of this guys posts. theyva ll been about how he used to havelots of friends and now he doesnt. Dawg u better go to the mall with this chick because 1) gain some valuble experience
2) socialize with a girl for a couple of hours
3)at worst you could have this girl as a friend who you can talk too and might introduce you to many of her firends
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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