"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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meeting a girl i never met

we all eat food

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this girl who is friends with one of my friends, who she hates a lot now, asked me to go the mall with her tommorow, but i dont know her. should I bring a friend with me or not, what should i do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anomalous

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Either she wants you as a friend or she wants you as a BF.

IF you feel uncomfortable going by yourself, then tell her to bring one of her friends (so you can you a friend of yours too).

Its just the mall, so don't expect to get a BJ.
 

Distant Light

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i'd go by myself (if u think she is pretty)
 

intha_burbz

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id doesnt matter if he wants to go to the mall. Dawg have u read any of this guys posts. theyva ll been about how he used to havelots of friends and now he doesnt. Dawg u better go to the mall with this chick because 1) gain some valuble experience
2) socialize with a girl for a couple of hours
3)at worst you could have this girl as a friend who you can talk too and might introduce you to many of her firends
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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