When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
ENTJ
Capricorn
Gemini rising
Aw ya big cutie. Come here and give me a hug =POriginally posted by MacAvoy
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?
Thats right, you know I'm BIG? :flowers:Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Aw ya big cutie. Come here and give me a hug =P
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
People do think i'm somewhat arrogant though i'm not at all.To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive
LOL .. yeah that's me. My own boss.apply (often ruthlessly) the criterion "Does it work?" to everything from their own research efforts to the prevailing social norms. This in turn produces an unusual independence of mind, freeing the INTJ from the constraints of authority, convention, or sentiment for its own sake.
Well, if you notice...those who posted the things I asked them to are showing that I was right..Originally posted by MacAvoy
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?
Well, I am an INFJ (2% of population) and Aries/Taurus, Fire/Earth. I feel so special, lol.Fire and Earth signs tend to be Extroverts and Air and Water signs tend to be Introverts.
Originally posted by syncmaster
ENTJ - Alpha Male Baby!
I'm part of the 2% of the population that consisted of Napoleon Bonaparte, Alexander the Great, Donald Trump...This is cool.
"Hardly more than two percent of the total population, the Fieldmarshals are bound to lead others, and from an early age they can be observed taking command of groups. In some cases, Fieldmarshals simply find themselves in charge of groups, and are mystified as to how this happened. But the reason is that Fieldmarshals have a strong natural urge to give structure and direction wherever they are -- to harness people in the field and to direct them to achieve distant goals. They resemble Supervisors in their tendency to establish plans for a task, enterprise, or organization, but Fieldmarshals search more for policy and goals than for regulations and procedures."
http://typelogic.com/entj.html
lol - talk about an ego stroke. hahah