You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
ENTJ
Capricorn
Gemini rising
Aw ya big cutie. Come here and give me a hug =POriginally posted by MacAvoy
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?
Thats right, you know I'm BIG? :flowers:Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Aw ya big cutie. Come here and give me a hug =P
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
People do think i'm somewhat arrogant though i'm not at all.To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive
LOL .. yeah that's me. My own boss.apply (often ruthlessly) the criterion "Does it work?" to everything from their own research efforts to the prevailing social norms. This in turn produces an unusual independence of mind, freeing the INTJ from the constraints of authority, convention, or sentiment for its own sake.
Well, if you notice...those who posted the things I asked them to are showing that I was right..Originally posted by MacAvoy
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?
Well, I am an INFJ (2% of population) and Aries/Taurus, Fire/Earth. I feel so special, lol.Fire and Earth signs tend to be Extroverts and Air and Water signs tend to be Introverts.
Originally posted by syncmaster
ENTJ - Alpha Male Baby!
I'm part of the 2% of the population that consisted of Napoleon Bonaparte, Alexander the Great, Donald Trump...This is cool.
"Hardly more than two percent of the total population, the Fieldmarshals are bound to lead others, and from an early age they can be observed taking command of groups. In some cases, Fieldmarshals simply find themselves in charge of groups, and are mystified as to how this happened. But the reason is that Fieldmarshals have a strong natural urge to give structure and direction wherever they are -- to harness people in the field and to direct them to achieve distant goals. They resemble Supervisors in their tendency to establish plans for a task, enterprise, or organization, but Fieldmarshals search more for policy and goals than for regulations and procedures."
http://typelogic.com/entj.html
lol - talk about an ego stroke. hahah