You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
ENTJ
Capricorn
Gemini rising
Aw ya big cutie. Come here and give me a hug =POriginally posted by MacAvoy
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?
Thats right, you know I'm BIG? :flowers:Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Aw ya big cutie. Come here and give me a hug =P
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
People do think i'm somewhat arrogant though i'm not at all.To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive
LOL .. yeah that's me. My own boss.apply (often ruthlessly) the criterion "Does it work?" to everything from their own research efforts to the prevailing social norms. This in turn produces an unusual independence of mind, freeing the INTJ from the constraints of authority, convention, or sentiment for its own sake.
Well, if you notice...those who posted the things I asked them to are showing that I was right..Originally posted by MacAvoy
What's this world coming to ER!C? Now you've let women sucker you into posting your astrological sign. Whats next, you gonna start sitting down when you pee?
Well, I am an INFJ (2% of population) and Aries/Taurus, Fire/Earth. I feel so special, lol.Fire and Earth signs tend to be Extroverts and Air and Water signs tend to be Introverts.
Originally posted by syncmaster
ENTJ - Alpha Male Baby!
I'm part of the 2% of the population that consisted of Napoleon Bonaparte, Alexander the Great, Donald Trump...This is cool.
"Hardly more than two percent of the total population, the Fieldmarshals are bound to lead others, and from an early age they can be observed taking command of groups. In some cases, Fieldmarshals simply find themselves in charge of groups, and are mystified as to how this happened. But the reason is that Fieldmarshals have a strong natural urge to give structure and direction wherever they are -- to harness people in the field and to direct them to achieve distant goals. They resemble Supervisors in their tendency to establish plans for a task, enterprise, or organization, but Fieldmarshals search more for policy and goals than for regulations and procedures."
http://typelogic.com/entj.html
lol - talk about an ego stroke. hahah