"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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maybe all i want is a girlfriend

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we all eat food

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i mean i dont really wanna be a player, i just wanna get a girlfriend and get a life. I mean, is that being a don juan, or just bein a playa.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I eat food, BIG MEAT, BIG MEAT, BA CHOMP, BA CHOMP, BA CHEWEY CHEWEY CHOMP :woo:
 
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NYC Dude

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Make some sense, man. Applying the principles that you learn here will help not only with becoming a "playa," but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
 
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It all depends on goals, and what you want.

I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.

I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.

I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
 
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but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
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That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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toddC

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yea dude, i'm in the same scenario as you. I'm DJing about 4-5 girls rigth now but I really only want a girlfriend. They are so much better and more meaningful than a 1 night stand (although from time to time these are good too haha).
 
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