we all eat food
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i mean i dont really wanna be a player, i just wanna get a girlfriend and get a life. I mean, is that being a don juan, or just bein a playa.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
maybe all i want is a girlfriend
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Danny21682
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I eat food, BIG MEAT, BIG MEAT, BA CHOMP, BA CHOMP, BA CHEWEY CHEWEY CHOMP :woo:
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Make some sense, man. Applying the principles that you learn here will help not only with becoming a "playa," but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
It all depends on goals, and what you want.
I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.
I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.
I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.
I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.
I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
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That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
...but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yea dude, i'm in the same scenario as you. I'm DJing about 4-5 girls rigth now but I really only want a girlfriend. They are so much better and more meaningful than a 1 night stand (although from time to time these are good too haha).
Aznkid1030
Don Juan
Ok....so whats the problem?