Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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maybe all i want is a girlfriend

we all eat food

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i mean i dont really wanna be a player, i just wanna get a girlfriend and get a life. I mean, is that being a don juan, or just bein a playa.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Danny21682

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I eat food, BIG MEAT, BIG MEAT, BA CHOMP, BA CHOMP, BA CHEWEY CHEWEY CHOMP :woo:
 

NYC Dude

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Make some sense, man. Applying the principles that you learn here will help not only with becoming a "playa," but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
 

08aisaac

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It all depends on goals, and what you want.

I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.

I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.

I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
 

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but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
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That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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toddC

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yea dude, i'm in the same scenario as you. I'm DJing about 4-5 girls rigth now but I really only want a girlfriend. They are so much better and more meaningful than a 1 night stand (although from time to time these are good too haha).
 
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