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i mean i dont really wanna be a player, i just wanna get a girlfriend and get a life. I mean, is that being a don juan, or just bein a playa.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
maybe all i want is a girlfriend
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Danny21682
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I eat food, BIG MEAT, BIG MEAT, BA CHOMP, BA CHOMP, BA CHEWEY CHEWEY CHOMP :woo:
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Make some sense, man. Applying the principles that you learn here will help not only with becoming a "playa," but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
It all depends on goals, and what you want.
I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.
I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.
I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.
I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.
I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
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That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
...but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yea dude, i'm in the same scenario as you. I'm DJing about 4-5 girls rigth now but I really only want a girlfriend. They are so much better and more meaningful than a 1 night stand (although from time to time these are good too haha).
Aznkid1030
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Ok....so whats the problem?