we all eat food
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i mean i dont really wanna be a player, i just wanna get a girlfriend and get a life. I mean, is that being a don juan, or just bein a playa.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
maybe all i want is a girlfriend
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Danny21682
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I eat food, BIG MEAT, BIG MEAT, BA CHOMP, BA CHOMP, BA CHEWEY CHEWEY CHOMP :woo:
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Make some sense, man. Applying the principles that you learn here will help not only with becoming a "playa," but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
It all depends on goals, and what you want.
I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.
I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.
I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
I could be a player, if I wanted, but that goes against who I am.
I am a DJ, not a player. And regardless of weather you hook up with millions of girls, or not, you are still a DJ, if you are a DJ.
I also would rather have a GF, then mindless hooking up, but both is fine.
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That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
...but help you get and keep a girlfriend, get friends, and succeed in life.
That's being a real DJ, a small part of it is being attractive to women, comes with the package so to speak.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yea dude, i'm in the same scenario as you. I'm DJing about 4-5 girls rigth now but I really only want a girlfriend. They are so much better and more meaningful than a 1 night stand (although from time to time these are good too haha).
Aznkid1030
Don Juan
Ok....so whats the problem?