"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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May/December

smeckle

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I was at a family Christmas party tonight and the strangest thing happened.

This girl who used to be my cousin, only by marriage (there's no blood line) hit on me hard core.

She tried to kiss me and everything.

Problem: I'm 20... she's 14.

:nervous:

Anyone else creeped out? I'm single now. I could f uck her if I wanted... but that thought makes me sick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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insidious

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Dude, that's not even May-December.
That's more like January 15-February 3 :wave:
Is your freedom worth it?
 
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A 14 year old hor - that seems right - you must live in America!!!
 

Thomas94305

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Yeah.. I'd be very creeped out. I'm a little older than 20, but had something equally creepy happen at 20. A very good friend.. known him since the first grade.. his little sister came up to me and kissed me at a party at his house, asked me to go in the bedroom, and take a roll. Gross.. her kiss was about like my friend kissing me EEEWWW.

Think when you were 14, 15.. you wanted to get your driver's license, something older people do. 19, 20 year olds want to get into bars. Teenagers are hungering to be adults. This 14 year old getting you would be a way for her to feel that... you're a "trophy" to her.

Jailbait.

Oh.. for you sicko.. NO, I didn't take that roll with my friend's sister..:moon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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smeckle said:
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Problem: I'm 20... she's 14.

:nervous:

Anyone else creeped out?...
Nah, young girls will do that type of thing testing out their sexuality by flirting and such. The crazy things that growing breast will do to a girl... :rolleyes:

smeckle said:
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I'm single now. I could f uck her if I wanted...
Alright, now we're creeped out.
smeckle said:
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but that thought makes me sick.
Whew, you had us nervous for a second there. Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to bang every girl/woman you come across.
 
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