Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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May/December

smeckle

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I was at a family Christmas party tonight and the strangest thing happened.

This girl who used to be my cousin, only by marriage (there's no blood line) hit on me hard core.

She tried to kiss me and everything.

Problem: I'm 20... she's 14.

:nervous:

Anyone else creeped out? I'm single now. I could f uck her if I wanted... but that thought makes me sick.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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insidious

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Dude, that's not even May-December.
That's more like January 15-February 3 :wave:
Is your freedom worth it?
 
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A 14 year old hor - that seems right - you must live in America!!!
 

Thomas94305

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Yeah.. I'd be very creeped out. I'm a little older than 20, but had something equally creepy happen at 20. A very good friend.. known him since the first grade.. his little sister came up to me and kissed me at a party at his house, asked me to go in the bedroom, and take a roll. Gross.. her kiss was about like my friend kissing me EEEWWW.

Think when you were 14, 15.. you wanted to get your driver's license, something older people do. 19, 20 year olds want to get into bars. Teenagers are hungering to be adults. This 14 year old getting you would be a way for her to feel that... you're a "trophy" to her.

Jailbait.

Oh.. for you sicko.. NO, I didn't take that roll with my friend's sister..:moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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smeckle said:
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Problem: I'm 20... she's 14.

:nervous:

Anyone else creeped out?...
Nah, young girls will do that type of thing testing out their sexuality by flirting and such. The crazy things that growing breast will do to a girl... :rolleyes:

smeckle said:
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I'm single now. I could f uck her if I wanted...
Alright, now we're creeped out.
smeckle said:
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but that thought makes me sick.
Whew, you had us nervous for a second there. Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to bang every girl/woman you come across.
 
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