"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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May/December

smeckle

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I was at a family Christmas party tonight and the strangest thing happened.

This girl who used to be my cousin, only by marriage (there's no blood line) hit on me hard core.

She tried to kiss me and everything.

Problem: I'm 20... she's 14.

:nervous:

Anyone else creeped out? I'm single now. I could f uck her if I wanted... but that thought makes me sick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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insidious

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Dude, that's not even May-December.
That's more like January 15-February 3 :wave:
Is your freedom worth it?
 
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A 14 year old hor - that seems right - you must live in America!!!
 

Thomas94305

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Yeah.. I'd be very creeped out. I'm a little older than 20, but had something equally creepy happen at 20. A very good friend.. known him since the first grade.. his little sister came up to me and kissed me at a party at his house, asked me to go in the bedroom, and take a roll. Gross.. her kiss was about like my friend kissing me EEEWWW.

Think when you were 14, 15.. you wanted to get your driver's license, something older people do. 19, 20 year olds want to get into bars. Teenagers are hungering to be adults. This 14 year old getting you would be a way for her to feel that... you're a "trophy" to her.

Jailbait.

Oh.. for you sicko.. NO, I didn't take that roll with my friend's sister..:moon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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smeckle said:
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Problem: I'm 20... she's 14.

:nervous:

Anyone else creeped out?...
Nah, young girls will do that type of thing testing out their sexuality by flirting and such. The crazy things that growing breast will do to a girl... :rolleyes:

smeckle said:
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I'm single now. I could f uck her if I wanted...
Alright, now we're creeped out.
smeckle said:
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but that thought makes me sick.
Whew, you had us nervous for a second there. Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to bang every girl/woman you come across.
 
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