Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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What is the maximum number of deadlifts anyone has ever done? At what weight?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kerpal said:Were they complete reps, starting from a dead stop on the floor every time, with a standard barbell and weight plates? Were they conventional? If so, that's amazing, that's almost 2.5x your bodyweight.
yessir !! Conventional style deadlifting with complete reps every time, full lockout and always hitting the floor !!Kerpal said:Were they complete reps, starting from a dead stop on the floor every time, with a standard barbell and weight plates? Were they conventional? If so, that's amazing, that's almost 2.5x your bodyweight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Drum&Bass said:425lbs for 20 reps
at a body weight of 175lbs.
thanks, yea I'm talking about what I have accomplished, oh yea and I don't use belts or straps, all my lifts are RAW !!So, are you talking about yourself here? Whoever it is, that's impressive.
Drum&Bass said:425lbs for 20 reps
at a body weight of 175lbs.
Drum&Bass said:thanks, yea I'm talking about what I have accomplished, oh yea and I don't use belts or straps, all my lifts are RAW !!
I use to worry about coming down lightly and I won't advice you from doing it because there are tons of benefits to a slow concentric but every once in awhile work on your (standing) speed and just be reckless (with good form).Alle_Gory said:Smooth up, smooth down. Feather landing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
375lbs for a few reps. That didn't feel too good for the next few days....Being_the_Don said:Has anyone else come close to Drum & Bass's numbers?
Thanks, and thats a good question..One of the disadvantages to raw deadlifting is the abuse your hands have to endure.I-tallionStallion said:DB - How long do you wait between every rep for your 20 repper record? Good job man
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Alle_Gory said:375lbs for a few reps. That didn't feel too good for the next few days....
What are you talking about? You have reserve muscles?MikeBrown30 said:But it's because i was forced to use muscles that I normally don't have to use.
So do it until failure, and then stop.Kerpal said:Yeah, I don't think high rep deadlifts are such a great idea. Too easy to get hurt. Plus, deadlifts take a very high toll on your body. With higher reps, it will be hard to recover enough in time for your other lifts.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.