"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maximum Number Deadlift Repetitions

Being_the_Don

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What is the maximum number of deadlifts anyone has ever done? At what weight?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kerpal said:
Were they complete reps, starting from a dead stop on the floor every time, with a standard barbell and weight plates? Were they conventional? If so, that's amazing, that's almost 2.5x your bodyweight.
yessir !! Conventional style deadlifting with complete reps every time, full lockout and always hitting the floor !!

I've been blessed with ideal genetics for deadlifting my long arms and torso give me phenominal leverage advantages.

I'm gonna be shooting for 10 reps of 465 in 2 weeks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So, are you talking about yourself here? Whoever it is, that's impressive.
thanks, yea I'm talking about what I have accomplished, oh yea and I don't use belts or straps, all my lifts are RAW !!
 

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Drum&Bass said:
425lbs for 20 reps

at a body weight of 175lbs.
:eek: Damn!

I've only got 325lbs for 12 reps. Smooth up, smooth down. Feather landing.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
thanks, yea I'm talking about what I have accomplished, oh yea and I don't use belts or straps, all my lifts are RAW !!

Good job. I don't use lifts or straps either. :)
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Smooth up, smooth down. Feather landing.
I use to worry about coming down lightly and I won't advice you from doing it because there are tons of benefits to a slow concentric but every once in awhile work on your (standing) speed and just be reckless (with good form).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DB - How long do you wait between every rep for your 20 repper record? Good job man:up:
 

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most I tried: 303lb x 5 at 132lb bodyweight.
 

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I found the 275 pounds easy but doing 43 total reps is equivalent to lifting perhaps 10 reps on 400 pounds. I plan to gradually increase the weight until I'm back up to 400 pounds, the way I figure it, this will actually help my progress. This should get me well above 400 pounds in a shorter length of time than if I were just lifting at 400 and increasing it by 5 pounds each week.

Has anyone else come close to Drum & Bass's numbers?
 

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Has anyone else come close to Drum & Bass's numbers?
375lbs for a few reps. That didn't feel too good for the next few days....
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
DB - How long do you wait between every rep for your 20 repper record? Good job man
Thanks, and thats a good question..One of the disadvantages to raw deadlifting is the abuse your hands have to endure.

I don't focus on the amount of time it takes between reps but rather I'll focus on how much pain my hands can withstand before I need to let go. As soon as my hands recover I pull again.

btw..just did a 1 rep max today ..i hit 495.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory said:
375lbs for a few reps. That didn't feel too good for the next few days....

That's not bad. At full lock out my maximum number of reps was two at 400 pounds on March 1 of this year. If counted individually I have lifted slightly more than that. Usually I have had to wait several minutes between reps at that weight level so I was glad to have been able to complete two lifts at 400 pounds one after another. That's why I'm hoping the new approach I mentioned in my fitness journal will help me.
 

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There's a bodybuilder at my gym at the top of his game who has won the last few national contests down here (Australia), and placed 3rd in the world at a New York event a couple of months ago. About 6 months ago he got into 100 rep training. Where the weight is basically 50-60% of your 1RM, and keep going until you get to 100 reps (As many breaks in between as you need, but breaks only 5-10 seconds at most). I think my 1RM was around 140kg (About 300lbs).

So he tells me I should try this training technique just for something different. It took me about 20 minutes to do the 100 reps, and for the next week and a half my back was absolutely FVCKED. I thought I had done serious damage to it, it was so painful just to even lean a little forward or back. But it's because i was forced to use muscles that I normally don't have to use.
 

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MikeBrown30 said:
But it's because i was forced to use muscles that I normally don't have to use.
What are you talking about? You have reserve muscles?

Which muscles aren't used?

If anything, on a squat or deadlift you are using muscles that shouldn't be used how they are because you've exhausted the muscles and your form has gone dangerously to crap.

I wouldn't fvck around doing exercises like that that involve your lower back. Even DC training doesn't rest-pause deadlifts for that very reason.
 

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Since we're now on the subject of pausing between lifts, how long do you guys wait? If I don't lift within no more than 20 secs of my previous lift, I declare the number where I stopped to be a set. Then I take rest break and then start again. I do that on all my exercises. I wonder if I've been counting them differently than most of you guys all of this time. :confused:
 

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Kerpal said:
Yeah, I don't think high rep deadlifts are such a great idea. Too easy to get hurt. Plus, deadlifts take a very high toll on your body. With higher reps, it will be hard to recover enough in time for your other lifts.
So do it until failure, and then stop.

Failure = unable to complete a rep with proper form.


There's no need to push too hard. When your form turns to crap, accidents happen.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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