Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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What is the maximum number of deadlifts anyone has ever done? At what weight?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kerpal said:Were they complete reps, starting from a dead stop on the floor every time, with a standard barbell and weight plates? Were they conventional? If so, that's amazing, that's almost 2.5x your bodyweight.
yessir !! Conventional style deadlifting with complete reps every time, full lockout and always hitting the floor !!Kerpal said:Were they complete reps, starting from a dead stop on the floor every time, with a standard barbell and weight plates? Were they conventional? If so, that's amazing, that's almost 2.5x your bodyweight.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Drum&Bass said:425lbs for 20 reps
at a body weight of 175lbs.
thanks, yea I'm talking about what I have accomplished, oh yea and I don't use belts or straps, all my lifts are RAW !!So, are you talking about yourself here? Whoever it is, that's impressive.
Drum&Bass said:425lbs for 20 reps
at a body weight of 175lbs.
Drum&Bass said:thanks, yea I'm talking about what I have accomplished, oh yea and I don't use belts or straps, all my lifts are RAW !!
I use to worry about coming down lightly and I won't advice you from doing it because there are tons of benefits to a slow concentric but every once in awhile work on your (standing) speed and just be reckless (with good form).Alle_Gory said:Smooth up, smooth down. Feather landing.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
375lbs for a few reps. That didn't feel too good for the next few days....Being_the_Don said:Has anyone else come close to Drum & Bass's numbers?
Thanks, and thats a good question..One of the disadvantages to raw deadlifting is the abuse your hands have to endure.I-tallionStallion said:DB - How long do you wait between every rep for your 20 repper record? Good job man
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alle_Gory said:375lbs for a few reps. That didn't feel too good for the next few days....
What are you talking about? You have reserve muscles?MikeBrown30 said:But it's because i was forced to use muscles that I normally don't have to use.
So do it until failure, and then stop.Kerpal said:Yeah, I don't think high rep deadlifts are such a great idea. Too easy to get hurt. Plus, deadlifts take a very high toll on your body. With higher reps, it will be hard to recover enough in time for your other lifts.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.