"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I feel a little betrayed by them [the jury]. I don't dislike them; I was just really hoping they would see things for what they are, and I don't feel that they did," she said."

oh really sweetheart? life has been such a b1tch to you hasnt it? and you are so special
 
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What's the chance she'll be out within 5-10 years?
 
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If it were a man who committed this murder, he would already be on death row.

sadly average people still believe a woman's life is more valuable than a man's life..

our society does hold woman as accountable as they do men.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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u got that right. I've seen pretty defense lawyers wrap judges around their little fingers. I'd take Jlo as an attorney, over F Lee bailey, ANY day.
 
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Burroughs said:

If it were a man who committed this murder, he would already be on death row.

sadly average people still believe a woman's life is more valuable than a man's life..

our society does hold woman as accountable as they do men.
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Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".

In developed countries... women care about women and men care about women. No one cares about men. Most men don't even care about themselves from what I've seen. If they're not helping to improve some woman's life, they don't know what to do with themselves. LITERALLY. :crazy:
 
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PlayHer Man said:
Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".

In developed countries... women care about women and men care about women. No one cares about men. Most men don't even care about themselves from what I've seen. If they're not helping to improve some woman's life, they don't know what to do with themselves. LITERALLY. :crazy:
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men have been conditioned to be worker bees

and they have jumped into their slavery with open arms

modern men are stupid or horribly naive..either way the endpoint is fixed and none of it benefits them :up:

yet somehow men can't see this

men don't feel complete until they have a woman to go into massive debt for and then hand over a house and kids to
 
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sadly nobody cares burroughs.
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Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.
"jumped into their slavery with open arms" = manning up to many men, fulfil your role as a man!!! this is how many men have become deluded, fooled, tricked, coerced into being drones (not those nasty radio controllled planes that drop bombs)

a mans role, a real man, is to fulfil his own role in life first, if the woman is worthy, she can tag along
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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betheman said:
Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.
"jumped into their slavery with open arms" = manning up to many men, fulfil your role as a man!!! this is how many men have become deluded, fooled, tricked, coerced into being drones (not those nasty radio controllled planes that drop bombs)

a mans role, a real man, is to fulfil his own role in life first, if the woman is worthy, she can tag along
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The thing is, a lot of men would be glad to take care of a woman he loves, provided she has a respectful attitude and shows gratitude for his sacrifices. No man wants to make sacrifices for a person who will be ungrateful, disrespectful, and despise him no matter how kind he is.

Although I think marriage is dying a slow, painful death, if you're dating a woman and start considering marriage, you need to spend at least 3 years observing her while you're dating. Let her get comfortable so you can see her true colors.

If she measures up and you'd like to get married, then do it. But you have to evaluate her honestly without ignoring any red flags. If you observe her carefully while enjoying your time with her, and she measures up to your standards of behavior, then you might be able to safely consider marriage. You need to observe her for a minimum of 3 years before getting married though.

If more men would do this, women might start being better behaved, or if not, only the well-behaved women would be getting married and for those that believe that marriage is an institution worth saving, doing this one thing would save the institution of marriage. Marriage is only as good as the decisions made by the people who choose to enter into it. Unfortunately, for men, the cards are already stacked against you, thanks to the state, so you have to be extremely cautious.
 
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I forgot to mention that I totally agree with betheman. The man has to live his life first and then he can invite her along.
 
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