sadly no surprise here..
http://news.yahoo.com/jodi-arias-jury-remains-deadlocked-over-death-sentence-013014705.html
http://news.yahoo.com/jodi-arias-jury-remains-deadlocked-over-death-sentence-013014705.html
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".Burroughs said:
If it were a man who committed this murder, he would already be on death row.
sadly average people still believe a woman's life is more valuable than a man's life..
our society does hold woman as accountable as they do men.
PlayHer Man said:Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".
In developed countries... women care about women and men care about women. No one cares about men. Most men don't even care about themselves from what I've seen. If they're not helping to improve some woman's life, they don't know what to do with themselves. LITERALLY. :crazy:
Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.Boilermaker said:sadly nobody cares burroughs.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The thing is, a lot of men would be glad to take care of a woman he loves, provided she has a respectful attitude and shows gratitude for his sacrifices. No man wants to make sacrifices for a person who will be ungrateful, disrespectful, and despise him no matter how kind he is.betheman said:Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.
"jumped into their slavery with open arms" = manning up to many men, fulfil your role as a man!!! this is how many men have become deluded, fooled, tricked, coerced into being drones (not those nasty radio controllled planes that drop bombs)
a mans role, a real man, is to fulfil his own role in life first, if the woman is worthy, she can tag along