sadly no surprise here..
http://news.yahoo.com/jodi-arias-jury-remains-deadlocked-over-death-sentence-013014705.html
http://news.yahoo.com/jodi-arias-jury-remains-deadlocked-over-death-sentence-013014705.html
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mature men consider Arias jury deadlock
- Thread starter Burroughs
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"I feel a little betrayed by them [the jury]. I don't dislike them; I was just really hoping they would see things for what they are, and I don't feel that they did," she said."
oh really sweetheart? life has been such a b1tch to you hasnt it? and you are so special
oh really sweetheart? life has been such a b1tch to you hasnt it? and you are so special
If it were a man who committed this murder, he would already be on death row.
sadly average people still believe a woman's life is more valuable than a man's life..
our society does hold woman as accountable as they do men.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PlayHer Man
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Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".Burroughs said:
In developed countries... women care about women and men care about women. No one cares about men. Most men don't even care about themselves from what I've seen. If they're not helping to improve some woman's life, they don't know what to do with themselves. LITERALLY. :crazy:
PlayHer Man said:
men have been conditioned to be worker bees
and they have jumped into their slavery with open arms
modern men are stupid or horribly naive..either way the endpoint is fixed and none of it benefits them
yet somehow men can't see this
men don't feel complete until they have a woman to go into massive debt for and then hand over a house and kids to
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sadly nobody cares burroughs.
Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.Boilermaker said:
"jumped into their slavery with open arms" = manning up to many men, fulfil your role as a man!!! this is how many men have become deluded, fooled, tricked, coerced into being drones (not those nasty radio controllled planes that drop bombs)
a mans role, a real man, is to fulfil his own role in life first, if the woman is worthy, she can tag along
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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The thing is, a lot of men would be glad to take care of a woman he loves, provided she has a respectful attitude and shows gratitude for his sacrifices. No man wants to make sacrifices for a person who will be ungrateful, disrespectful, and despise him no matter how kind he is.betheman said:
Although I think marriage is dying a slow, painful death, if you're dating a woman and start considering marriage, you need to spend at least 3 years observing her while you're dating. Let her get comfortable so you can see her true colors.
If she measures up and you'd like to get married, then do it. But you have to evaluate her honestly without ignoring any red flags. If you observe her carefully while enjoying your time with her, and she measures up to your standards of behavior, then you might be able to safely consider marriage. You need to observe her for a minimum of 3 years before getting married though.
If more men would do this, women might start being better behaved, or if not, only the well-behaved women would be getting married and for those that believe that marriage is an institution worth saving, doing this one thing would save the institution of marriage. Marriage is only as good as the decisions made by the people who choose to enter into it. Unfortunately, for men, the cards are already stacked against you, thanks to the state, so you have to be extremely cautious.
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I forgot to mention that I totally agree with betheman. The man has to live his life first and then he can invite her along.