sadly no surprise here..
http://news.yahoo.com/jodi-arias-jury-remains-deadlocked-over-death-sentence-013014705.html
http://news.yahoo.com/jodi-arias-jury-remains-deadlocked-over-death-sentence-013014705.html
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".Burroughs said:
If it were a man who committed this murder, he would already be on death row.
sadly average people still believe a woman's life is more valuable than a man's life..
our society does hold woman as accountable as they do men.
PlayHer Man said:Society still views women as weak, innocent and defenseless compared to men. Women like keeping this image alive because it benefits them. White knights like keeping this image alive because it make them feel "macho" and look "tough".
In developed countries... women care about women and men care about women. No one cares about men. Most men don't even care about themselves from what I've seen. If they're not helping to improve some woman's life, they don't know what to do with themselves. LITERALLY. :crazy:
Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.Boilermaker said:sadly nobody cares burroughs.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The thing is, a lot of men would be glad to take care of a woman he loves, provided she has a respectful attitude and shows gratitude for his sacrifices. No man wants to make sacrifices for a person who will be ungrateful, disrespectful, and despise him no matter how kind he is.betheman said:Im not sure thats entirely true, men seem to have to be burned, often badly, to learn the lessons.
"jumped into their slavery with open arms" = manning up to many men, fulfil your role as a man!!! this is how many men have become deluded, fooled, tricked, coerced into being drones (not those nasty radio controllled planes that drop bombs)
a mans role, a real man, is to fulfil his own role in life first, if the woman is worthy, she can tag along