“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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match.com versus pof, still full of lower quality women?

drift king

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does anyone use match.com?

would you say the quality of women is better than the ones on pof because you have to pay for a subscription or the fact they're internet dating in general equals low quality?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm sure I read about match.com making fake profiles to generate interest.

POF/OKC are fine. Snog.com is interesting too, lots of replies, just make sure you filter out the illegally young!!
 

The Duke

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I live in a large metro area where there are plenty of women to date but it doesn't make it any easier finding one for long term success!

I used both sites extensively for a few years. I've found good and bad on both of them. But in general I think match had a little higher quality that brought more to the table as far as looks, class, and careers go.

I encountered a little more flakey behavior on pof. I think because it is free, you have girls that are there for attention whoring, not dating which results in more flakeyness.

And yes I've seen those fake profiles on match. They have also been involved in a few court cases over things along those lines.

As I get older, I just don't have the energy to do what it takes to be successful with online dating like I did at one point. I don't care to sort thru all the trash and there is a ton of it on those dating sites.

Put up good pics, have a profile that stands out from the crowd, and send out a ton of messages that are designed to illicit a response like nobody elses. Do all this and you will snag a few.

Regardless of the site, I just don't think online dating is the answer. Its a notch or two better than scoring girls at bars.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jammer said:
same sh*t different pile
A winner is you! :up:

Most of my online dating "success" actually came from matchmaker. Last I checked, I had over 250 interests. Too bad they charge you to read mail, so I never got to talk to any of them, or see anything beyond the headline they put in the mail. Some nice looking girls, though. The "hot" ones ALWAYS want to go to a bar, party, hang out, or anything involving alcohol, sex, and no accountability. I wish they werent all the spawn of Satan.

To not contact them was probably God saving me from evil. Bwahahaha! :nono:
 
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