jiza101
Master Don Juan
Great post man, just what i needed. Its so true about if your not in touch with your body its ALWAYS going to hold you back in other areas. I am proof of that, i am not where i wanna be body wise, but im working towards it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.