"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mastering My Life: Physical Mastery

jiza101

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Great post man, just what i needed. Its so true about if your not in touch with your body its ALWAYS going to hold you back in other areas. I am proof of that, i am not where i wanna be body wise, but im working towards it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don Corleone

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Legendary post man. I also workout on a daily basis, but somedays I am simply too lazy to hit the gym or make myself a nutritious meal. I think that this is a wakeup call for me.

My favorite line in your post was, "Why would a beautiful woman want to hang around with some slob?" - this is exactly right. Beautiful women hit the gym DAILY, eat right, have great heigene, dress nicely and always take hours to get ready.

If women put this much effort into their bodies, why would they expect ANY LESS from a guy?



RESPECT
 

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Great thread. Have you given any thought to purchasing FitDay PC, or using the free version they have on their website @ www.fitday.com? It's just about the only software I've ever purchased - but it's been the best thing I've spent my money on in a very long time.
 

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Diablo,
I currently subscribe to the free Fitday.

What improvements are in the pay version that are not in the free version?

The only difference I could see is that you can access it on your own computer if you don't have an internet connection (which doesn't apply to me ... I always have an internet connection).

Thanks for the reply.

To the thread starter, I commend you on your goals. Sticking to them will be the challenge. Good luck.
 

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Great post!!

Working out improves your looks, attitude, relaxes you, and makes you more confident and gives you that boost to go after what you want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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