Married Women...

[Pakwah]

...started 'dating' a girl whom i knew 3 years ago. Got married five months ago but is filing for divorce....should i wait till paper work is over or get the ball started now? I want in....

 

[WaterTiger]

Depends on how pissed off your soon-to-be ex wife is with you. She could drag the girl into the divorce as a "homewrecker" and the reason for the divorce. Best to wait till the papers are signed.

Why are you getting a divorce after only 5 months?

 

[woods]

I think he means the chick is still married, technically. You might have a husband on your ass, if yiou dont wait. He might be on your ass even if you do though. Your call man. Its dangerous though.

 

[sav]

go for it :woo: , just sleep with a gun under your pillow...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'd be careful about "dating" her (treating her as a girlfriend). Once you do, you allow a method for her turmoil to seep into your life. Tread her as a FWB and keep yourself detached. Also as always, beware of becoming the "rebound guy." :nono:

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Dude if you can't even keep your own Wife for six months it would be better for everyone concerned if you kept well away from any other girls in the future, this is quite pathetic really. :yes:

 

[Pakwah]

I'm not married....she is.

She even asked me 'so i guess were dating now'

Thing is, i like this one. We share alot of interests and i am not in any rush to get her into bed

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm not married....she is.

She even asked me 'so i guess were dating now'

Thing is, i like this one. We share alot of interests and i am not in any rush to get her into bed

I repeat....

Beware of becoming the 'rebound guy.' :nono:

 

[Latinoman]

I'm not married....she is.

She even asked me 'so i guess were dating now'

Thing is, i like this one. We share alot of interests and i am not in any rush to get her into bed

So you are falling in love with her.

LOL.

I feel sorry for you.

By the way, I know of a case that happened about 5 or 6 years ago. A couple (married couple friend of the woman) was visiting this recently divorced woman. They were there with their children and there was another guy there and I guess the woman's children too.


The ex-husband came in armed...tied up all the adults and send the children to the room. Then he came back and killed ALL the adults (including the innocent by-standers that were just visiting). He then killed himself.

I know this story because their were some custody battle for the orphan children of the couple that was visiting the recently divorced woman as they were killed in that house too and left the children orphan.

That's what happen when a man feels that he is losing something as most men that are getting divorced feel that way.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

So you are falling in love with her.

LOL.

I feel sorry for you.

By the way, I know of a case that happened about 5 or 6 years ago. A couple (married couple friend of the woman) was visiting this recently divorced woman. They were there with their children and there was another guy there and I guess the woman's children too.


The ex-husband came in armed...tied up all the adults and send the children to the room. Then he came back and killed ALL the adults (including the innocent by-standers that were just visiting). He then killed himself.

I know this story because their were some custody battle for the orphan children of the couple that was visiting the recently divorced woman as they were killed in that house too and left the children orphan.

That's what happen when a man feels that he is losing something as most men that are getting divorced feel that way.

Biggest
AFC
Ever

It is times like this that I wish I was religious so that I can hope he burns in hell in agony for eternity.

 

[Pakwah]

Heres more of a break-down

We knew each other 3 years ago. Would chat online for maybe no more than 2-5 minutes a month if that

So one day i said, you know if you werent going out with x and i wasn't dating y - i would have asked you out.

She reply was 'really - i would have said yes'

So after hanging out lately she tells me back then she had this huge crush on me. I liked her too.

So we have a history - i dont want to be a 'rebound' its just we click on many levels. I went from being a guy who was going to have '5 girls' to just wanting one and only one. She cracked my wall i've had up for the last six months and i am in no real hurry to close it up just yet

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I dated a seperated woman for a year. Huge mistake.

 

[woods]

Do you know any details of why they are getting divorced so soon? I suggest finding out.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...So we have a history - i dont want to be a 'rebound' its just we click on many levels. I went from being a guy who was going to have '5 girls' to just wanting one and only one. She cracked my wall i've had up for the last six months and i am in no real hurry to close it up just yet

Here she comes down the court. Her soon to be ex sticks his hand in and slows her down, she changes directions several times and then drives down the baseline; she's up and the ex comes up from behind and WHAP!!! Pakwah is slapped, and slapped hard off the backboard like a brick! He bounces and rolls toward the crowd. She frantically chases him down aaaannnnndddd..... WHOA, she keeps Pakwah from getting away, it's still her game. She turn with a light dribble just to see her ex at the top of the key, waiting for her again....
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[Pakwah]

apparently he ****ed around on her already.

 

[woods]

How is he reacting? Did he leave quietly, or is he fvcking with her?

 

[mrRuckus]

Biggest
AFC
Ever

It is times like this that I wish I was religious so that I can hope he burns in hell in agony for eternity.

Yeah because that punishment fits the crime...

"you have to burn forever because you sent people to heaven."

 

[wayword]

Got married five months ago but is filing for divorce....

Wow, what a hor! Just 5 months and already cashing in...

Why do men get married anymore? I don't get it. If prostitution is illegal, why is marriage still legal?

 

[vorbis]

well if her husband was cheating on her, i believe its perfectly reasonable to get a divorce..

 

[Desdinova]

First, let's look at the reasons for a guy to cheat on his wife:

- She's a bytch
- He wasn't interested in her

Also, since you don't have both sides of the story, don't forget to include the possibility that she made up excuses and used her imagination to get out of the marriage.

There's something not quite right here. She's eagerly dating someone while the ink is still drying on the marriage papers. It makes me wonder what the motivation was behind the marriage. Did she lead him into something he didn't want? Or did he lead her into it?

Divorced women are damaged goods. Divorced women with kids are more damaged. Twice divorced women are even worse. Just curious, how old is this woman?

Now, here's what's wrong with you:

I went from being a guy who was going to have '5 girls' to just wanting one and only one. She cracked my wall i've had up for the last six months and i am in no real hurry to close it up just yet

First, you have one-itis

Second, you seem to be addicted to drama yourself. You want to date a freshly married separated woman. If that isn't bad enough, what happened to your possibly pregnant ex that you and her bf were fvcking at the same time?