"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pakwah, don't believe everything she says!! Maybe he cheated on her because she cheated on him - who knows??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL

yeah, that's what the married girl I dated said.

They are getting divorced because he "cheated on her".

And I bought it like a sap.
 

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Actually they dated for about 6 years or so....since she was 20
She she that he felt forced to marry her. He wasnt comfortable with it. So five months into it, he screwed around with more than one girl, in their own place. He also didnt work, so she was working and paying all the bills.
Shes looking for a new place, doesnt care if she gets one thing, she wants out she says.
 

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Desdinova said:
First, let's look at the reasons for a guy to cheat on his wife:

- She's a bytch
- He wasn't interested in her
And also if she doesn't "put out".
 
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